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So if my son is leaving his current high school, why is their school psychologist coming in to talk to him today? She's not his provider anymore, she never talked to him before, why bother now? There is no good reason why she needs to talk to my son. This is the kind of bullshit is that irks me. It's playing unnecessary games and my patience is about at its limit.
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In New Jersey, 1 in 32 8-year old children is diagnosed with Autism. In Toms River, the rate is 1 in 14 for 8-year old boys.
That's a pretty startling statistic.
That's a pretty startling statistic.
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So better diagnosis these days? Environmental (toxic) impacts? Genetic pool problems?bfj wrote: ↑Fri Jun 18, 2021 9:33 am In New Jersey, 1 in 32 8-year old children is diagnosed with Autism. In Toms River, the rate is 1 in 14 for 8-year old boys.
That's a pretty startling statistic.
Also other than a relative who lived there does everyone from my generation immediately think of the Little League World Series when Tom's River is mentioned?
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I'm in the same boat. Uncle was from there, but also LLWS... Though the town probably stuck in my head because of the former, so...
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bfj wrote: ↑Fri Apr 09, 2021 11:04 am Thanks for the love, it really does help since there aren't a whole lot of people I can talk about this with. My son is lucky to have my wife who is a special educator and a brilliant woman who doesn't tolerate fools (I'm the exception she makes). She knows what he's due and will accept nothing less. Without her, I think I'd be pretty lost and like many parents, trust the system to do the right thing. I really believe the only reason they are pushing this to Due Process instead of coming to a resolution is that they think that we will back off because of how expensive this can all be. It feels like a poker game where we have pushed all in and we just have to wait to see if they fold or play their cards.
My lawyer talked to Twatface's boss and he told us that he is intervening on his own and NOT by the request of his client (BCPS). Since he is so familiar with Max and our history with BCPS, he wanted to see if he could help find a resolution. Our attorney interprets that as he sees legal risk in their case and would like to find a solution, but he needs to convince his client of the same. They discussed what we want and Twatface's boss is going to take it to BCPS and see if there is a way for resolution.
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Yes, yes (although Utah had a pretty high prevalence also a few years back), probably.wlu_lax6 wrote: ↑Fri Jun 18, 2021 10:29 amSo better diagnosis these days? Environmental (toxic) impacts? Genetic pool problems?bfj wrote: ↑Fri Jun 18, 2021 9:33 am In New Jersey, 1 in 32 8-year old children is diagnosed with Autism. In Toms River, the rate is 1 in 14 for 8-year old boys.
That's a pretty startling statistic.
Also other than a relative who lived there does everyone from my generation immediately think of the Little League World Series when Tom's River is mentioned?
Was that the team w Drury on it?
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No that was Trumble, CT and a kid on hall first year in college was on that team.bfj wrote: ↑Fri Jun 18, 2021 3:30 pmYes, yes (although Utah had a pretty high prevalence also a few years back), probably.wlu_lax6 wrote: ↑Fri Jun 18, 2021 10:29 amSo better diagnosis these days? Environmental (toxic) impacts? Genetic pool problems?bfj wrote: ↑Fri Jun 18, 2021 9:33 am In New Jersey, 1 in 32 8-year old children is diagnosed with Autism. In Toms River, the rate is 1 in 14 for 8-year old boys.
That's a pretty startling statistic.
Also other than a relative who lived there does everyone from my generation immediately think of the Little League World Series when Tom's River is mentioned?
Was that the team w Drury on it?
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1 in 44 children (8 years old) diagnosed with Autism. Up from 1 in 54 two years ago.
Copy of the most recent study from the CDC
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Here we go again.
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Sorry to hear, BFJ.
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I'm sorry, BFJ.
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Really awful to hear this news man.
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Shit. I’m sorry to hear this.
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I'm absolutely not reading that. I just don't understand how humans get like that.
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So Max turned 19 yesterday. Not a great first half to his big day. He is a very lonely kid who doesn’t have a ton of friends to hang out with. The kids he wants to hang with aren’t autistic and they don’t really want to hang w my kid. It’s very sad and all he wanted yesterday was to have friends call or come over and wish him a happy birthday. So he was really frustrated about that.
He was also pissed because he didn’t get any of what was on his list that he wanted. A few months ago, he broke his personal laptop. I allowed him to use one of my work spares for the time being, but we decided to buy him a new one for his birthday. He had given me a list of Pokémon stuff he wanted on Amazon and I audibled. Big mistake. And one I knew I shouldn’t have made. I was counting on him being so excited by the laptop that he’d forget it his Pokémon shit. I was wrong. I take the L on that one.
So the morning absolutely sucked for all of us. He was pissed and we kept trying to get him to turn it around, but he was not having it. That wears on all of us.
As the day went on, he calmed down. We started to figure out the new computer. He was ok. Still very sad. He even told us he didn’t want to go to Cheesecake Factory for dinner and that is a Max bday tradition. We got him to agree to go. He cheered up more when he got his own plate of nachos (who wouldn’t).
Everything improved at the end of the night after dinner though. To read more take it to the Proud Parent Thread.
He was also pissed because he didn’t get any of what was on his list that he wanted. A few months ago, he broke his personal laptop. I allowed him to use one of my work spares for the time being, but we decided to buy him a new one for his birthday. He had given me a list of Pokémon stuff he wanted on Amazon and I audibled. Big mistake. And one I knew I shouldn’t have made. I was counting on him being so excited by the laptop that he’d forget it his Pokémon shit. I was wrong. I take the L on that one.
So the morning absolutely sucked for all of us. He was pissed and we kept trying to get him to turn it around, but he was not having it. That wears on all of us.
As the day went on, he calmed down. We started to figure out the new computer. He was ok. Still very sad. He even told us he didn’t want to go to Cheesecake Factory for dinner and that is a Max bday tradition. We got him to agree to go. He cheered up more when he got his own plate of nachos (who wouldn’t).
Everything improved at the end of the night after dinner though. To read more take it to the Proud Parent Thread.
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Does anyone have any experience with the "Spell to Communicate" therapy?
My GF and her ex have been talking to people about a new living situation for their daughter Kelsey, and a couple of the families they've spoken to told them about the program, and she's been doing some research and hearing all kinds of conflicting things.
My GF and her ex have been talking to people about a new living situation for their daughter Kelsey, and a couple of the families they've spoken to told them about the program, and she's been doing some research and hearing all kinds of conflicting things.
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I must have missed this when you posted it, BFJ. This story definitely resonated. I love that your older son stepped in to make it a really good day. Making friends is so hard for autistic kids. And once they're that age, it's hard for parents to help. So when a genuine non-parent-involved interaction happens, it just means so much more - even if it is his brother and his friends. I bet Max loved that.bfj wrote: ↑Sun May 28, 2023 7:23 pm So Max turned 19 yesterday. Not a great first half to his big day. He is a very lonely kid who doesn’t have a ton of friends to hang out with. The kids he wants to hang with aren’t autistic and they don’t really want to hang w my kid. It’s very sad and all he wanted yesterday was to have friends call or come over and wish him a happy birthday. So he was really frustrated about that.
He was also pissed because he didn’t get any of what was on his list that he wanted. A few months ago, he broke his personal laptop. I allowed him to use one of my work spares for the time being, but we decided to buy him a new one for his birthday. He had given me a list of Pokémon stuff he wanted on Amazon and I audibled. Big mistake. And one I knew I shouldn’t have made. I was counting on him being so excited by the laptop that he’d forget it his Pokémon shit. I was wrong. I take the L on that one.
So the morning absolutely sucked for all of us. He was pissed and we kept trying to get him to turn it around, but he was not having it. That wears on all of us.
As the day went on, he calmed down. We started to figure out the new computer. He was ok. Still very sad. He even told us he didn’t want to go to Cheesecake Factory for dinner and that is a Max bday tradition. We got him to agree to go. He cheered up more when he got his own plate of nachos (who wouldn’t).
Everything improved at the end of the night after dinner though. To read more take it to the Proud Parent Thread.
Totally Kafkaesque
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I'm going to bump this thread again to ask if anyone has any experience with the "spell to communicate" therapy...DaveInSeattle wrote: ↑Sun Sep 17, 2023 7:52 pm Does anyone have any experience with the "Spell to Communicate" therapy?
My GF and her ex have been talking to people about a new living situation for their daughter Kelsey, and a couple of the families they've spoken to told them about the program, and she's been doing some research and hearing all kinds of conflicting things.
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Really cute story in this morning's Seattle Times about an Editorial editor's son with autism and a former Special Ed teacher playing Santa:
A sweet reunion with Santa confirms he’s the real deal
A sweet reunion with Santa confirms he’s the real deal
Kev is a Christmas guy. Around 2007 — he would have been 10 — he met the real-deal Santa. We were shopping for poinsettias at Molbak’s Garden + Home in Woodinville when a Nordic-attired Santa approached and introduced himself. Eyes wide with a grin ear to ear, Kev reached out and grasped Santa’s hand and held on to it. I mean, actual Santa’s actual hand.
In a side conversation, Santa John, as he is known, told me he was a retired special-ed teacher. Who knew? That training explains why he understood Kevin in ways most people don’t, and why Kevin reacted so openly. Kev talked about it for days. Such a gift, and every year since. My husband once sent the Molbak’s bosses an email about the effect these visits have on our son. And Santa himself wrote back.
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that's a good one Dave, thanks. I need to read more stories like this.
DaveInSeattle wrote: ↑Sun Dec 03, 2023 7:31 pm Really cute story in this morning's Seattle Times about an Editorial editor's son with autism and a former Special Ed teacher playing Santa:
A sweet reunion with Santa confirms he’s the real deal
Kev is a Christmas guy. Around 2007 — he would have been 10 — he met the real-deal Santa. We were shopping for poinsettias at Molbak’s Garden + Home in Woodinville when a Nordic-attired Santa approached and introduced himself. Eyes wide with a grin ear to ear, Kev reached out and grasped Santa’s hand and held on to it. I mean, actual Santa’s actual hand.
In a side conversation, Santa John, as he is known, told me he was a retired special-ed teacher. Who knew? That training explains why he understood Kevin in ways most people don’t, and why Kevin reacted so openly. Kev talked about it for days. Such a gift, and every year since. My husband once sent the Molbak’s bosses an email about the effect these visits have on our son. And Santa himself wrote back.
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